What do you do when you discover your spouse is cheating? Would you believe that not everyone immediately confronts the lying SOB and calls a lawyer
or a counselor? In fact, some spouses hide from the truth. They pretend to not know what they know. They think life can go on just as they thought it was. They are wrong.
In math equations, the expression on one side must always equal, or have the same value, as the expression on the other. There is a corollary in life: When you discover something, you are changed by it in a way that is equal to its significance.
I call this the Discovery and Change equation. Continue reading