Are you the type of person who asks for help when you need it? Or do you struggle on by yourself, refusing to ask others? When you need help,
Sometimes it is hard to recognize when you need help, to say what it is you cannot do, and to accept others’ help graciously. But when you can, you experience freedom from your need for perfection.
regardless of the type of help you need or the person you need it from, just say, sincerely and humbly, “Can you help me?”
I promise you’ll get help with whatever it is that you can’t do – whether it’s changing a tire, working with you at the school fundraiser, or finding a store. Continue reading
Your friend has just told you that he and his wife are getting a divorce.
What do you say?
If you’re like most people, you can’t find the right words. You want to say something comforting, but you don’t know what to say.
Make no mistake, saying the right thing to a friend who has just announced a pending divorce is difficult. However, your friend
The right words in response to bad news provide comfort and support your relationship
knows you’re made of stronger stuff and that’s why he has confided in you. He’s counting on you right now, so it’s time to step up.
There are five parts to a good response that will bring comfort your friend. Continue reading
What can I do to get to know other people?
I’m so glad you asked me.
The conversational habit of asking questions will not only tell you a lot about others, it will tell them a lot about you.
Listening to what others say is of course paramount.
Listening to what is meant by what they say is even more effective.
Of course, in order for you to listen, the other person needs to talk. My favorite way to get to know others is to simply ask them questions and then listen!